Almost 10 years ago I moved to a foreign country. I did not speak the language or anything to help me. When I moved my best friend had a 4 year old daughter which is getting her confirmation now. Most of my friends were single. One of my friend had a pregnant girlfriend and now today a father of 4 children. 2 years after I moved my younger brother made my grandmother into a great grandmother. I don't know much of my brothers kids or my best friends kids and they don't know my kids. Distances are sometimes great and sometimes much bigger than one things. I hardly know any kids my generation in my family and their kids. Sometimes you just get to much time time to think